Love & Relationship Advice

[future pather]

Lama,

It sounds like a wonderful direction on this is emerging before you

I'm sure you can do some of the concepts in your own room, at least


XO Jessica

[Pamela]

Yea!!!

Oh, My Darling Lama...

I am SO pleased that you found my advice to be beneficial and that all worked out beautifully with your wonderful Mom!!!

Bless You, Habeebti!!! The Light That Is You comes through brilliantly in each and every one of your posts!


With MUCH Love and Gratitude,

Pamela

[Grace]

For Lama!

yes Gracie you are very right ... human interaction is in our daily lives and having the chance to share experiences and thoughts and getting advice from each other is something that everyone needs ..

I would add "Appreciation" to your "Forgiveness" .... if only everyone appreciates everyone in their lives ....

Let's start appreciating each and every person in our lives ... i have started an appreciation journal ... in which i keep listing every single thing i appreciate about every single person who is important to me .... and even for the people i interact with on a daily basis ...we are touched by everyone we meet in some way or another ..lets pay close attention to that .. and make the best of it

Love & Gratitude

You are so right Lama! I am so grateful for the people in my life! I have never been more aware of this than right now!! I learn so much about myself due to the amazing people I am surrounded by, and when a relationship becomes challenging in some way, I learn even more! So in this I remember all is perfect and whole.

[Grace]

To err is human to Forgive Divine!

I am posting this here so that we can all come to understand how important, yet how delicate, fragile, and at times incredibly challenging relationships are. I have not posted back to Chansonette at PI, but I will. I was only made aware of this post just yesterday evening. With all of our help, light and love I know this relationship will teach us more about Forgiveness and unconditional love.


I will be back later to post more about this matter.



Chansonette Buck

Wow...Gracie...I was just on ESM checking in for old times' sake and saw your post (forget the thread) about how ALL ABOUT FORGIVENESS you are....wow. really???

Finding that really hard to jive with what you skyped me a few weeks ago about how offended you were with me (for something that was SO inadvertent on my part and SO not intended as offensive to you at all)....and castigating me for a conclusion I've arrived at about PATHS by following my own god-given lights.

Wow. so tell me....what does any of that have to do with FORGIVENESS exactly?

Chansonette...who has loved you without conditions

Posted by Chansonette Buck
12/18/07 12:35 AM

[future pather]

Out of all the modules I have done, the ones I would recommend most in the relationship area (to be done 3 months per module) are:


1. Deserving - Yes, yes you deserve a wonderful relationship! Get that into you head, lol.

2. Successful Living (the whole series)


(I have not tried the Effective Communication module yet.)


XO Jessica

[Grace]

Love and Forgiveness

I agree Jessica those are great modules for helping with Relationships. When I first put my daughter on Effective Communication at home, both her brother and I noticed right away how effectively she began communicating her needs instead of whining etc. The newer modules are also spectacular and amazing at helping with Relationships! Unconditional Love and HoOponopono.


I did want to mention here on this fabulous thread of Lama's that there are times when Relationships seem to go wrong. In truth it is always a blessing and a great opportunity for growth in awareness of Self. I posted back to Chansonette this beautiful Christmas morning, and now I want to post what I said to her. I have been making quite a bit of energetic corrections on myself, and I know that others will resonate with this and pick up the corrections as well.

My "issue" concerns how I feel when others break trust with me. Trust in relationships is BIG for me. When I no longer feel like I can trust someone it wounds me deeply. It is true that all is perfect, but since we are infinite beings I know that there is always more to discover, and since I have discovered that I have yet another layer of issues revolving around trust in relationships, I am eager and grateful to begin working on myself. I know that once another major layer of issues is removed there is much more light to see the truth! The truth shall set you free!!!!


Here is what I posted to Chansonette:



Grace Haeusler
Hi Chansy,

Forgiveness has everything to do with this. It is true for YOU that
what you did was "SO inadvertent and not intended to be offensive",
but for me it re-opened a pain within me that I could not deny. I
have said over and over again when people ask about Chinese Energetic
Medicine and me, and how is it possible that I can make so many
"corrections" for so many people and not get drained in anyway? The
answer is simple, I work on myself more than anyone else! I make
more energetic corrections for myself daily than I do for anyone else,
and more for myself than even the groups that I work on daily! Why,
because I can't give what I don't have only what I do.

I believe that whatever I have attracted into my life (created) is
perfect and whole. Every experience I have ever had and every
experience I will create in the future, has the seed of great
opportunity and goodness within it. I see this daily, and now
gratefully in every moment.

I was offended back in August 2007 with your unintentional/unconscious
remarks because it was the same type of behavior I had to deal with
growing up as a child that wounded me deeply. I was keenly aware
after our skype conversation that I needed space from you, and more
importantly that I needed to make energetic corrections on myself for
these "old wounds". It is also my way to "Hermit" myself from others
when I have work to do on myself.

Your feelings of being "castigated" is your own creation not mine.
Whatever conclusions you have come to concerning me or Paths is none
of my business. It does not matter to me what anyone thinks, only
what I believe is what gives me the faith to manifest. I am inspired
by many people and experiences to move in this world in a way that
creates more love and light. It is my intention to support greatness
and to forgive weakness in myself and in others. I believe we are all
one. What I do for myself I do for others. What I do for others I do
for myself.

I told you early this month on the last skype chat I made to you that
"I will always love you". I mean this with my whole heart and soul!
You are a beautiful being with a brilliant mind. If you believe that
you love me without conditions then let me BE. This is the last
conversation/post I will have with you on a public forum. I do plan
to discuss this "issue" of mine on Lama's thread at
www.energeticforum.com here is the link if you care to check into ESM
for "old times' sake" again

http://www.energeticforum.com/general-discussion/1471-love-relationship-advice.html#post14287

This is Christmas Morning for me, I chose this day to post back to
you to remind you, me and others of our true nature, our true state of
being, we are Christ Consciousness.

With Much Love and Gratitude for you Chansonette, Grace


Posted by Grace Haeusler
12/25/07 09:47 AM

[Grace]

Love 2008

Hi Lama,


I couldn't resist posting this beautiful and amazing video! I hope you like it! Thank you Allison for sending this to me!


LOVE 2008

[Adrienne]

hi

thanks for posting Grace... That was beautiful....
Adrienne
thanks Allison for sharing so we could all see