Chinese Energetic Medicine by Grace

[Grace]

For Zartgirl, DebbieQ, and Flattlander!

HOW ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS YOU THREE LADIES ARE!!!

The beautiful Wisdom and love that you have given this forum is SUPERB!! When I made corrections on these issues of "having your buttons pushed" I was actually enjoying the synchronicity of it all, so much so that I could not stop smiling(almost giggling) as I was making the corrections. You see, I have a friend that secretly enjoys pushing my buttons, and I love having my buttons pushed more!!

Having your buttons pushed is such an incredible gift! How else would we know that there was a "block to love"? A block to loving ourselves! A block to recognizing that all we are is LOVE! This game of life is so DELICIOUS, it is so much fun, so entertaining!!

When my "buttons are pushed" it is as if an electrical impulse has finally been awakened, and I am "turned on"! It is also as if a new Light bulb has been turned on and I can see what I have been creating in the dark. (at times not so pretty, but still my own creation), and now I have enough light to add new colors!! Creating even more beauty for myself and others!

Recognizing WHEN your buttons are pushed is part of this fabulous game, and it is essential to enjoying the moment. With the right perception (that having your buttons pushed is gift, an awakening) you can feel the difference from having to defend yourself which is fear based, to freeing yourself into the pure joy of receiving (Gratitude)!!

I am grateful for your posts and the "corrections" I am still making concerning these issues resonate with me deeply, and for this I am even more immensely grateful!!

Zartgirl, DebbieQ, and Flattlander

[zartgirl]

Hey just a little update...

I have been applying the process from the BL to my MOM situtation, and it is helping, but I also realized that what was really happening was she was inadvertently pointing out to me one of my Obsessive complusive issue dealing with time and being late. I have this thing where I completely freak out if I am not at least 15 minutes early someplace... But it gets worse if someone tries to calm me down about the time issue. To me it is like they are disrespecting me and telling me that time is not important. Funny thing is it really isn't cause it is a made issue to begin with! So I guess I really need some work in this area of time and the fear of being late.

I also have been setting time aside to listen to my paths more... with the move I had missed a week or so and so was loosing some of my peace of mind that I get from my paths!

New corrections requested! I started my walking program this morning and walked with my wallking tape for one mile. I am not really even tired from it so I am thinking I will go for a second mile tonight! tomorrow I will just do the two mile walk with the video. My goal is to walk 3 miles everyday! I need to strengthen my lungs and body, and well it is just good for us! A skinnier waist would be a good thing too. I have been loosing weight with just processing my weight issues using the BL process and two pointing it, but since then I have had this desire to walk 3 miles a day, so I am thinking this is my spiritual self telling me that I am supposed to play the walking game! It is fun and gives me so much energy and it is easy. The lady that leads it doesn't expect me to be able to touch my toes let alone be able to practically do the splits! I like this program!

Blessings and thank you sallyjane

[Flattlander]

Hi Debbie, those are some great observations! I agree with you that all these old feelings come back to us because they need to be healed. (I believe that anytime we experience an uncomfortable emotion or one that doesn't feel good, that it is a signal to us that we need some healing).What a great way to look at visits from Mom! It's a wonderful opportunity to heal. And maybe in the process we can get to experience our moms as the wonderful people they actually are!!

But the main reason why I'm butting my head into this conversation is because I have found that the Breakthrough to Enlightenment module is a great one for this very situation. I was on it several months ago and found that it helped me to recognize when I was running an old pattern or program that was not healthy for me. It litterally helped me to stop myself in my tracks as I was about to say or do something that was, in my opinion a stupid thing to say or do. And I even was able to figure out why or what triggered me to want to do so. And I have started back on that module and am getting similar results. So I wanted to point that out as something that might help if anyone is consciously trying to work on breaking old patterns. I've also started on the Ho'oponopono mod because I think it helps with that also, as I think it focuses on forgiving and letting go, which is another method to the same end in my opinion.

Stacey

[DebbieQ]

help with Mom

Hello everyone.........I'm relatively new to this forum, but love the energy and almost feel as though I know all of you after reading here for the last few weeks. I posted an introduction on the matrix forum if any of you feel inspired to check it out. I'm hoping responding to a post directed to someone else is not inappropriate.......please let me know if it is.

Aren't mothers amazing?? Doesn't it just blow your mind how they can bring out the parts of us that we most dislike about ourselves. My own mother recently visited me, and my usual calm, accepting composure crumbled within the first couple of days. I think what happens is that all the hurts and frustrations of our childhood that were left unresolved, come rushing back up to the surface again for healing.....but instead of recognizing the opportunity we fall back into our usual patterns of resistance and resentment, and the drama continues right where we left it. I think we actually revert back to the child within, who feels totally powerless to change our circumstances. Not sure if any of you follow Abraham teachings, but I remember them once saying that after Esther visited her mother she finally understood what homesickness meant.......it's when going home makes you sick!!!

So, Sallyjane, having said all this.....I'm not sure I have any practical solutions for you. Trying to resolve old patterns in the heat of the moment is a bigger challenge than most of us are up for! We're usually in a state of reaction, and detachment is the only state that's going to help us see the drama for what it is. If you can find a way to make peace with where you are in this game, and find thoughts about your mother that bring you back to your new empowered self.....you'll feel much better. Who you are now, is much wiser, stronger, more passionate, etc. than who you were during your last encounter with your mother. Jeez, I can see all your growth over the last while, and I don't even know you personally!! Maybe your mother is seeing things in you that frighten her....maybe she's afraid of losing the "you" that she's always known. She's probably feeling SO much better, now that the old "you" has come back again. She just hasn't figured out how to relate to the woman you've become, and so she draws out her little girl. Maybe it would be helpful if you had a nice cup of coffee with her at your favorite place.....just you and her, and you asked her about her interactions with her own mother....and if she ever noticed how the mother/child thingy just flares up and ruins a perfectly good time!

The amazing, beautiful Grace will probably have some constructive solutions for you, and tweaking your energy patterns will certainly help............but the work will still be waiting for you. Soon as my mother left, I put the work right back up on the shelf.....and it's calling me! She's the only one left that can still draw out that helpless insecure little girl that I used to be.....and I truly want to help the little girl in me feel safe enuff to merge with the woman I've become. The next time I see my mother, I wanna see all the things that I love and admire about her instead of the things that make me wanna climb walls and scream So, I'm off to think some thoughts about the triggers that evoke those old hurts, and bring them up for healing and soothing.....because I know that this is really all about me, and nothing to do with my mother. Now that feels a little more powerful......I can't change my mother, but I know that I can change myself.

xxxoo
Debbie

[zartgirl]

Help with Mom...

Grace, I need some help with my mom!

My mom has come to stay with me and help me with my kids. She is driving me up the wall! First of all she is very negative about everything... and her attitude is really starting to wear on me! I was about ready to quit my job today just to get rid of her !

Second, is just carrying over from our relationship from all my life... I don't know how to describe it..... she is bringing out some old ugly stuff in me! I am trying to process it and process it, but then the negativity and everything flies up in my face and I don't know what happens but next thing I know I am yelling at her and my kids and that is not like me! I need some special patients with my my mom for the next 3 weeks till I get done with transition.

Thank you So much Sallyjane

[Grace]

Excellent Question KimJ!!

I have a question about how to "relax". I'm hearing that message repeatedly in my thoughts so I know I need to listen. I have this feeling that this is my pivotal point, if you will, and once I cross this bridge I'll be at a whole new level of understanding and power. I know it's to essentially mean "let go and let God" but I just am not getting the how. On the one hand it seems just to literally relax, not let things get to you, etc., which of course makes perfect sense, but then I'm not seeing how to apply that to the "real" world of needing to get things done. I guess it goes with the question of believing "as if" yet still somehow make your way through this physical world without getting caught up in it. Anyone have some insight to this? It's like my staffing issues... in trying to "relax" I turn into a pushover...thinking, "it will all work out", meanwhile I still have negative Nancy not doing her job! LOL

So, I would love hear someone else's take on how to relax and let go.

Wishing you all a joy-filled day.

Kim

Hi KimJ!,

EXCELLENT QUESTION! Being relaxed and letting go, is another way of expressing what BEING AT PEACE is all about. Because we live in this dualistic world (with the Mind/ego forever compartmentalizing everything into yin/yang, strong/weak, good/bad, love/hate etc) you first have to understand that all of this is an illusion. There is nothing but ESSENCE/GOD/INFINITE POTENTIAL.

Now knowing this and experiencing this are two different things, and what your great question is about! Once you realize/experience and hence know the truth, that EVERYTHING is working to your ultimate benefit and favor, then you will automatically begin (and it gets better and better with each passing moment) to relax, let go of the ego/mind chatter and BE AT PEACE.

Muscle testing (Kinesiology) is powerful in that it allows you to tap into your true essence without the immediate judgmental nature of the ego/mind. In other words instead of worrying about which choice to make you muscle test for which choice will bring strength (the truth) or weakness (not the truth)

With Chinese Energetic Medicine,(Paths, ME, Theta, etc) you can then make corrections for what you discover is making you weak, and also make corrections to strengthen what is already strong. (Bringing Forth even more light)

Relaxing into the flow and letting go, is also about having great faith in your powerful true nature. KNOW who you truly are and nothing can shake you. Once you experience your true power; you also at once experience Peace.

Experiencing your true power is simple. Just be aware of your creations. Know that everything you see in the outer world was created by you. Do this with no judgment. Then begin to be aware (focus with gratitude for your power) of what you desire that has already been created. Notice what you like not what you don't like. Be aware of the fact that YOU created what you liked. Now simply focus on that and nothing else. The minute you find yourself focused on something you don't like, choose again.

The more you practice this the easier it will be to notice(be aware) of how powerful you are. This will help you to grow in faith of your immense power, and to also realize that all is PERFECT and hence feel nothing but Love, Gratitude, and Peace!

Thank you again KimJ, for such a great question!!

[Grace]

For KimJ!

Thanks Grace! That same day we got three responses!! I'm feeling more powerful these days!! Still not anyone we would love to hire, but a definite improvement! Are you able to test if we should place another ad to get some more applicants or if this is about it for now?

Thanks so much for that beautiful show!!! I did need it right at that moment - of course!

Love and light to you.
Kim

Hi KimJ,

Yes I am able to test if placing another ad is weak or strong. It tested weak, so it is best to wait a bit before you put another advertisement in the paper. What does test strong is a nice sign in your store front window concerning hiring new stylists. This also tests strong for keeping your other stylists on their toes!

[KimJ]

How to "relax"?

I have a question about how to "relax". I'm hearing that message repeatedly in my thoughts so I know I need to listen. I have this feeling that this is my pivotal point, if you will, and once I cross this bridge I'll be at a whole new level of understanding and power. I know it's to essentially mean "let go and let God" but I just am not getting the how. On the one hand it seems just to literally relax, not let things get to you, etc., which of course makes perfect sense, but then I'm not seeing how to apply that to the "real" world of needing to get things done. I guess it goes with the question of believing "as if" yet still somehow make your way through this physical world without getting caught up in it. Anyone have some insight to this? It's like my staffing issues... in trying to "relax" I turn into a pushover...thinking, "it will all work out", meanwhile I still have negative Nancy not doing her job! LOL

So, I would love hear someone else's take on how to relax and let go.

Wishing you all a joy-filled day.

Kim

[KimJ]

Thanks Grace!

Thanks Grace! That same day we got three responses!! I'm feeling more powerful these days!! Still not anyone we would love to hire, but a definite improvement! Are you able to test if we should place another ad to get some more applicants or if this is about it for now?

Thanks so much for that beautiful show!!! I did need it right at that moment - of course!

Love and light to you.
Kim

[Grace]

For KimJ and Zartgirl!

Hi KimJ, and Zartgirl,

I am happy and grateful to make corrections for your requests! In fact for both of you the issues tested pretty strong before I even began making corrections. I was very happy to realize that the minute you thought to ask, it was already being manifested for both of you. This is the first time that I have tested this since I began this thread! This makes me happier than I have been for a long time concerning making corrections. THANK YOU for being so POWERFUL!!


THIS ONE'S FOR YOU!

[zartgirl]

Ahhhh thanks! and even more!

What an awesome life! Well I am in my new home and it is coming together so nice! I absolutely love it!!!

I also got a new (to me) car this weekend! It is so totally awesome, and cute and fun! It is a Grand Am... Two door little sporty car! Most importantly the transmission is not going out on it, and it has all its paint, and it runs awesomely! Everything is totally awesome!

There is just one area I would like some adjustment in, and that is with my work. Somehow they have me down as available anytime, and I am only really available on a long term basis for a day shift 9am to 6pm. I told the Head of HR when he hired me I was a single mom and could not work nights (I would be able to do it through training but not long term). Well now they are saying I am available anytime for any schedule, and that my preferred schedule is a wish list! As I explained to my Team Manager it is not a wish list! I made it clear at time of hire I could not work nights, and as it is my mom had to come stay with me till I get on day shift after training. My training was supposed to be from 6am till 2pm and they changed me to nights on that too... Well, my TM has promised to get it worked out and she is completely aware that this is an issue I would quit over! They have already spent several thousand dollars on me in training, so I am just trusting that all will work out perfectly for me!

Thank you and HUGS Sallyjane

[KimJ]

Congrats to Sally Jane and another request please!

Hey there. First of all, CONGRATULATIONS to Sally Jane for your new house!!! How exciting for you. You have come so far on your journey with so much more exciting things yet to come for you!!!

As for me, I'm hoping for corrections still on my staffing issue. One of my negative employees is being much better (thank you!!!), but a second one is just not getting the world of ethics. She's great if you point stuff out to her, but leave her alone and she'll do nothing all day if it's not busy. I want to keep her, however, because she is excellent when she's "on". What I really want though is a response to our employment ads for some leeway. We've had ads in for a month now and not a single response!!! Can I have some corrections on that, please??? I fiind it quite odd as when we first were opening I was so worried about that part and we had great response, now I was not worried and we've had none!!

I also wanted to pass on a couple of new books I'm reading and really enjoying by John Randolph Price called The Abundance Book and Superbeings. Anyone read them? Ohhh, I could spend all day reading if I could!!! LOL

Well, got to fly! Blessings and abundance to you all!!!
Kim

[Grace]

For Sallyjane!

(I reposted this from the general topics, because I wanted all of you to see it forsure!)

Tomorrow is Moving day for the kids and I!

We got our house, and as of 3:30 pm this afternoon it passed inspection allowing us to move into it tomorrow!!!! I am sooo psyched, excited and just bouncing off the walls!

It is a perfect little 3 bedroom 1.5 bathroom home in good condition (well it has to be to pass inspection for HUD). I was sitting on pins and needles all week waiting for the second inspection to happen. That one had to pass by 5:30pm tonight for me to be able to move in. It was soooo awesome as I could just feel the energy in that place as the inspector was going through it... At one point he went out to his car and got a 9volt battery to put into one of the smoke detectors to help it pass. Then a clogged drain started to drain! It was a slow drain and the plumber was still coming to work on it, but it was draining just fast enough for the inspector to let it pass. It was amazing!!!! Beyond amazing!!!!

Blessings and Hugs Sallyjane

Hi SallyJane!

CONGRATULATIONS!! All your Good is Racing your way!!! LIFE IS ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS!!

[Bobi]

(I reposted this from the general topics, because I wanted all of you to see it forsure!)

Tomorrow is Moving day for the kids and I!

We got our house, and as of 3:30 pm this afternoon it passed inspection allowing us to move into it tomorrow!!!! I am sooo psyched, excited and just bouncing off the walls!

It is a perfect little 3 bedroom 1.5 bathroom home in good condition (well it has to be to pass inspection for HUD). I was sitting on pins and needles all week waiting for the second inspection to happen. That one had to pass by 5:30pm tonight for me to be able to move in. It was soooo awesome as I could just feel the energy in that place as the inspector was going through it... At one point he went out to his car and got a 9volt battery to put into one of the smoke detectors to help it pass. Then a clogged drain started to drain! It was a slow drain and the plumber was still coming to work on it, but it was draining just fast enough for the inspector to let it pass. It was amazing!!!! Beyond amazing!!!!

Blessings and Hugs Sallyjane

Oh Sallyjane - this is wonderful news! It has been such a wonderful adventure in here with you and words fail to express the shear delight in sharing your new digs, new job, new friends, new all-things-wonderful with you.

Welcome home.

Bobi

[zartgirl]

Party at my house! LOL!

(I reposted this from the general topics, because I wanted all of you to see it forsure!)

Tomorrow is Moving day for the kids and I!

We got our house, and as of 3:30 pm this afternoon it passed inspection allowing us to move into it tomorrow!!!! I am sooo psyched, excited and just bouncing off the walls!

It is a perfect little 3 bedroom 1.5 bathroom home in good condition (well it has to be to pass inspection for HUD). I was sitting on pins and needles all week waiting for the second inspection to happen. That one had to pass by 5:30pm tonight for me to be able to move in. It was soooo awesome as I could just feel the energy in that place as the inspector was going through it... At one point he went out to his car and got a 9volt battery to put into one of the smoke detectors to help it pass. Then a clogged drain started to drain! It was a slow drain and the plumber was still coming to work on it, but it was draining just fast enough for the inspector to let it pass. It was amazing!!!! Beyond amazing!!!!

Blessings and Hugs Sallyjane