Can you manifest something that is semi-impossible?

[sadness]

Hello,

I am in a situation which I really want to change and in a deep depression. I posted this on another forum and got some interesting replies but I just wanted to see if anyone had anything to add. Please note that my emotions/hormones are very up and down at the moment and I am finding things very difficult.

I am pregnant with my 4th child and at the 21 week scan the sonographer said it was another boy. I have 3 boys already. I'm absolutely devestated by this. For many personal/physical reasons I was really hoping for a girl.

The question I have is obvioulsy as scan can be wrong. Until I actually have my baby there is this state of limbo where the baby could in theory be a girl. Gender scans tend to be correct 95-99% of the time, so even if the window of error is tiny, it is still there. Is there anything I can do to manifest the scan being wrong and this being a girl?

PS. Please no replies lecturing me about being lucky to have another child or telling me to manifest being happy with what I have. The situation is a bit more complicated than I want to go into in a website and I am just asking for manifesting advice in relation to a very specific question. If you want to lecture me or give me a psychology lesson, please just refrain from posting on this thead. Thanks.

[sucahyo]

Hope can help but is limited. What things you actually do to get a girl?

What kind of information do you have for tricks to get baby girl? western or eastern knowledge?

Many of the trick mention that it should be done at the making. When you pregnant it will be too late.


But as always, getting only boys can also be a bless.

[aljhoa]

Hello,

Please note that my emotions/hormones are very up and down at the moment and I am finding things very difficult.

Is there anything I can do to manifest the scan being wrong and this being a girl?

Research hormone-replacement-therapy (B-ioidentical-HRT not HRT) and amniocentesis the most risky and most accurate method of gender determination.

Al

[ImBill]

Hello,

I am in a situation which I really want to change and in a deep depression. I posted this on another forum and got some interesting replies but I just wanted to see if anyone had anything to add. Please note that my emotions/hormones are very up and down at the moment and I am finding things very difficult.

I am pregnant with my 4th child and at the 21 week scan the sonographer said it was another boy. I have 3 boys already. I'm absolutely devestated by this. For many personal/physical reasons I was really hoping for a girl.

The question I have is obvioulsy as scan can be wrong. Until I actually have my baby there is this state of limbo where the baby could in theory be a girl. Gender scans tend to be correct 95-99% of the time, so even if the window of error is tiny, it is still there. Is there anything I can do to manifest the scan being wrong and this being a girl?

PS. Please no replies lecturing me about being lucky to have another child or telling me to manifest being happy with what I have. The situation is a bit more complicated than I want to go into in a website and I am just asking for manifesting advice in relation to a very specific question. If you want to lecture me or give me a psychology lesson, please just refrain from posting on this thead. Thanks.

I don't think there is much that can be done at this point. From what I've read and understand, the gender is determined at conception. Prior to conception is when the manifestation work should have been done. Of course, making sure of the gender of a child is easier if you adopt, and there are plenty of children out there that need to be adopted. I know you aren't interested in hearing it, but I would have to ask why you are so intent on manifesting sadness for yourself.

[Ingram]

Assuming the child's physiological state is male orientated and you manipulate the gender predicated on your preference, the probable outcome will be gender confusion.
Adopt a girl or girls.

[noises]

We don't manifest what we want, we manifest what we are. Sounds like you are trying to manifest a want. Are you more focused on wanting a girl, or believing you will have a girl? Because there is an enormous difference, and all the former does is manifest WANT. (ie, not having, wanting.)

I'll spare the lecture and just say good luck with breaking the laws of attraction. You can't show people what's right in front of them until they're ready to see it themselves.

[Mrenergy]

You can manifest anything but it needs to be done before the manifestation arrives = ) If you wanted a daughter you should have been manifesting that before you had sex.

My wife and I would love a child but we have not worked on our manifestation of it and her body does not allow pregnancy. We will gladly take a boy or girl, no matter......

Everything in our lives over the past five years proves that manifestation works 100 percent of the time, but it has to be asked for with strong emotion (strong enough to bring you to tears is even better, typically with gratefullness for what you already have been given), then known strongly that it is on the way. You cant obtain something, then manifest that it change it's properties once arrived. At least that is what I have found.

P.S. I have found no manifestation to be impossible, just that some take longer than others and require you to follow intuitive feelings.

Tad

[CosmicFarmer]

Men who work on radio transmitting devices such as radar and high tension lines have damage done to their gentiles, which results in the ability to only have girls. I suggest you take this boy and love him, then tell your husband to work as a radar repairman.

[future pather]

My wife and I would love a child but we have not worked on our manifestation of it and her body does not allow pregnancy. We will gladly take a boy or girl, no matter......

Tad

If you have not tried working with someone in alternative medicine, like with medicinal herbs I suggest it. Their success rates are very high with fertility issues

[noises]

I am just asking for manifesting advice in relation to a very specific question.

If you change your mind about that lecture, here it is.

It's not a question of specific questions, issues, problems, dramas, hassles, worries, fears, doubts, concerns or life threatening disorders having specific ritualised mantras that lead you to manifesting cures and answers for them. Broadly, it's to do with how you're feeling about something.

Changing the way you feel about things IS difficult. It takes persistence. You have to work at things along the way too, to help resolve whatever is making you feel depressed, anxious, stressed.... stop the negatives.

It's not the thoughts in your mind for the few minutes or several hours a day you spend fixating on what you want that brings them into being. What you do, is you open yourself wide up to it happening for you. From the heart. Then you go out there and do what needs doing along the way.

You do some research, in your case, I'd be looking into traditional or indigenous womens lore from various cultures around the world to see if they have any "sure fire" ways of having a girl as far along as you are, and I'd be doing that with a very open and positive frame of mind, trusting I'd find an answer that would mean there was something I could do. I'd be looking into diet. Basically anything I can find to do with any spare time I can get that will advance my knowledge of the topic of gender determination in any folkloric tradition, I'd do. I'd also be doing what you've done here too, coming for advice on manifesting, with an attitude of real thanks from the moment I got there that someone would be able to help further my knowledge on that topic, trusting I'd somehow come to the right place, to hear the right answers.

Then I'd spend the next however much longer it is trusting the whole universe, my creator especially, with just the same level of humility and gratitude. I'd believe it's on my side, but I wouldn't expect it to do all the work. I'd do the work. All the universe does is open doors and provide me with what's called synchronicity, you just so happen to be in the right place at the right time to meet, see or hear a part of the answer, and you get all overjoyed and happy about that, and go right on back to working for it, knowing that, that little bit of wisdom you just gained, the knowledge you picked up, or the lucky break you just had was a sign the universe is working with you. As near as I can tell, the more thankful and happy you are, and the more real positive effort YOU put in, the better this stuff seems to work. Near as I can tell.

Little story here, I just spent the grand total of one day trusting the universe would come up with an offroad vehicle for me, so I could give my little sedan I was treating like a rally car away and stop abusing it by offroading in it, which I was doing for the greater good anyway, but that's another story. Point is, I followed my own advice, and the next day, the very next day, in return for doing a favor I didn't have to do for a friend, for free, and quite happily, I was handed the keys to a landrover. For free. Quite happily. Of course, I've had to arrange to get it towed to somewhere I can work on it, it's not in real good shape. I've actually done her another a favor by towing it away. But give me a few months of my own work, with help from friends, trusting all the bits and the money I need to do the job will turn up as I need them, I'll go ahead and do it, and I'll have that car on the road, and I'll be giving the perfectly good car I've got now to some single mother or retired person, maybe some student who's just moved here, and I'll get to be their lucky break, or part of an answer, or something to be thankful for, or sign the universe is on their side. But you know who it won't go to? Someone sitting at home who really wants a car, but hasn't gone out of their way to somehow find themselves one.

There's resonance between my decision to give my car away and my love of the feeling I get when I get to be the agent of good fortune in someone else's life, and me being generous with what I have, and me being given a car by someone else, even though it needs a lot of work. There's an even bigger clue as to how manifesting really works in that. We don't manifest what we want, we manifest what we are.

Good luck, god bless, I hope you have a daughter.

[energyrikard]

hi...

hi sadness. ...saddle-ness? .)

here's a few words for you...

first, let me thank you for posting about your current state in your life and that you share your thoughts on your life journey.

i can see that you are in a place that feels very frustrating to you, as this wasn't the usual "let's plan on this pregancy together, and whatever the outcome it's the best thing in the universe" sort of thing..

... now it happened...and you want a girl, more than anything right now. it's beautiful that you want a girl, as they are so lovely, sensitive and sincere in all their female-ness...

..dear you, have you thought of why you really want the girl so much and not a boy? this is so all-new to you, and things are happening so fast.. perhaps too fast... and you have a picture, or a plan if you will, on what is necessary for you to feel happiness... in your belief-system you perceive the scan-results as positive and negative depending on if it's going to be a boy or a girl.. let's stop here for a moment. if you would have a different belief-system it might be the opposite. the boy was wanted as you had 3 girls already... so of course, the belief-system determines which feelings you will get, and right now... yes, you are sad. and it's frustrating and it gives you a hard time to cope with all this.

..now. what makes you believe that only a girl can take you to a higher level? ..dear one, there is nothing that says that on this planet you walk upon, that you can't feel happiness for the child to come regardless of gender.... you see, this has not to do with the genders at all... it has to do with you, and your belief-system... think of: "..which things exactly are hindering me from feeling that i cannot appreciate a coming boy?..".. that's where the tie is.. once you have identified these things that hinders you from feeling appreciation, or at least come to a more feeling-place less sad, regarding a coming boy, you are on the right track. continue there, and you have neutralized that part of you who feel sadness right now... you see, there is also another part of you who wants the opposite.. it's already there.. it's there right now..all the time..

..and with this..i wish you a lovely day. it's of great appreciation for me to reply to you.. thank you.

[Mrenergy]

If you have not tried working with someone in alternative medicine, like with medicinal herbs I suggest it. Their success rates are very high with fertility issues

Thanks. We are working on adoption considering the unwanted children in the world.

Tad

[future pather]

That's great. It's sad that some people are under the impression that there aren't unwanted children because it is so difficult to adopt.

That is just because no agency wants to be sued for allowing unfit people to adopt.


energyrikard,

Nice post. Even traditions which are passed down maternally would not dishonor doing so through adoption. This does not have to be the end of the line

[rickoff]

Until I actually have my baby there is this state of limbo where the baby could in theory be a girl. Gender scans tend to be correct 95-99% of the time, so even if the window of error is tiny, it is still there. Is there anything I can do to manifest the scan being wrong and this being a girl?

Why certainly there is something you can actively do in the hopes of reversing the gender scan results. Instead of sitting around feeling sorrow and regret, you can immediately begin an earnest search to locate an authentic time traveler who is currently visiting from the future. You see, if time travel from the future is a real possibility (and a great many scientists now think it is) then it follows that there have been, and currently are, time travelers among us. So you locate one of these travelers, and convince him or her to travel back to the day before you conceived, and to deliver two documents to you:
1. A note handwritten and dated by you, telling yourself not to do whatever caused you to become pregnant the following day, and explaining why.
2. The gender scan report, as proof that your note is authentic. You might even include a photo of yourself holding the note in one hand and the report in the other. Remember, if you are prone to disbelieve in time travel while reading this post then of course you would need to see some really convincing proof. If the time traveler simply showed up at your home and told you how things have turned out, it is rather doubtful that you would believe it or alter anything.

Now the above scenario does pose some possible problems. Some time travel theorists would say that the note, the scan document, and the photo would no longer exist when the time traveler returns to the day before you conceived. For that matter, though, it might also be suggested that the time traveler would have no recollection of having met you and being given those items. A differing school of thought might suggest that the time traveler constantly maintains any and all knowledge they have gained, backwards to the earliest time visited, and forwards up to and including the time from whence they originally departed. Some would also suggest, that in the evolution of time travel, a solution would likely have been found to prevent current documents and other objects from vanishing when reversing the course of time. Now of course the solution so far only includes preempting the event of the fateful day of conception that led to your current situation. To reverse gender of your fetus, you would require a different, and highly controlled method of conception. Consider that the time traveler would have come from a future time where people routinely preselect the gender of their next child, perhaps accomplished by taking a tablet an hour before intercourse.

Still other theorists envision it is likely that there are several (and perhaps infinite) concurrent planes of existence, and that each one can vary slightly from the one where you currently find yourself. If this is indeed possible, then theoretically you could travel to a different plane of existence in the current time frame and find one of your other selves there pregnant with a female fetus. Perhaps that alternate self may already have 3 girl children, and be devastated to learn that another girl is now expected. Hmmm.... Suppose that you could exchange places with that other self, and that she accepted that proposal from you - would you choose to do that? For purposes of this discussion, let us suppose that nearly everything else in that plane of existence would remain exactly the same as in the plane that you currently experience.

As you can see, the possibilities are really quite limitless. The realistic probabilities, however, are surely rather limited when considering a probable solution to your current dilemma. Still, I would say that locating a friendly and competent time traveler is probably your only possible chance at reversing the gender of your unborn child before it is born.

If none of the above offers you any realistic hope for a reversal of fortune, then I would suggest that you simply learn to love what you have already been given, since gender is determined at conception by the 23rd pair of chromosomes that the embryo inherits from its parents, and nothing other than one of the above scenarios can possibly change that now.

Rick

[serenac]

Manifesting a change in bone structure without surgery, is that possible?

You can manifest anything but it needs to be done before the manifestation arrives = )

Everything in our lives over the past five years proves that manifestation works 100 percent of the time, but it has to be asked for with strong emotion (strong enough to bring you to tears is even better, typically with gratefullness for what you already have been given), then known strongly that it is on the way. You cant obtain something, then manifest that it change it's properties once arrived. At least that is what I have found.

P.S. I have found no manifestation to be impossible, just that some take longer than others and require you to follow intuitive feelings.

Tad

In general I am reeeeeeeeeeeeeally happy with my life, don't really have any complaints and find that in general the things I want and most certainly everything that I need always manifests itself in my life, happily!

However there is one thing I've always wished I could change and I just don't see how it could ever be possible. Does anyone know about anyone who has ever changed their natural bone structure using law of attraction or manifestation techniques or whatever? I don't mean manifesting a plastic surgeon who could do massive plastic surgery on you, I really don't know if what they show on TV is really possible, where they do plastic surgery and completely change a person's face, but I'm a natural gal and I'm not into plastic surgery or other such artificial devices.

Anyways like the first person who posted here said, I'm also not interested in receiving lectures about how I ought to be grateful for what I have and all that stuff, I AM grateful about being healthy and about everything I have and enjoy. However, well and I'm sure every person out there who has ever for example complained about their weight, or felt fat, or too short, or dyed their hair or whatever, well I'm sure most people out there can understand not liking little defects in their looks. And if what we're talking about is more than just a simple, small, barely noticeable defect, I'm sure most people could understand that someone would wish they didn't have that defect!

I imagine that many people who contribute on this forum might possibly also suffer from some defect, debilitating illness that can't be cured, etc., and you probably all have your own ways of dealing with it, philosophizing about it, etc. I understand that these things are probably karmic and that most probably the best attitude to have is that, well at least you get to pay off your karmic debt this time around and who and what you really are like as a person has nothing to do with the way you look. But try telling that to a shallow and narcisistic society where the only thing that matters is the way you look, where people close doors on you because of your looks. Not because you look ugly, I guess I could live with that, but because you look odd, as in not quite right, not like everyone else, not like other human beings. Maybe you'd be accepted in the toad world..........

So, no matter how much I might philosophize on it, meditate, reflect, etc., try and feel grateful that I at least get this chance in this lifetime to pay off karmic debts, think about all the good things that I do have, etc., deep down I still have a great desire to look normal, like other human beings. I think I'd even be happy to be ugly but normal and human looking, than to look the way that I do. Or who would you rather have as a friend/sentimental partner, someone who looks pretty good but clearly has a defect, or someone who is plain/ugly but is perfectly normal (2 hands 2 feet 2 human eyes a human nose mouth ears etc. etc. etc.)?

Well, come to think of it, probably most people on this board would choose their friends/partners on the basis of character and personality rather than looks, but then again most people on this board would probably be more enlightened and mature than the general public. Okay let's phrase it a different way, let's say you're an average Joe, you don't think about things too much, your spiritual life is nil, you're not much into self-improvement or being a good guy, you just want to pay your bills feed your family and watch TV. But you've got a ton of power in your hands, maybe you're the hiring director of your company, or a record exec, casting director for a modelling agency or maybe you're the guy in charge of choosing the people to form a part of the neighbourhood committee. So who would you choose? That nice looking girl with an obvious defect or the average looking girl who nonetheless looks normal? Well, personally, I think if I were the average Joe out looking for a nice girl I'd choose the average one who looks human, after all who'd want to have babies with that lovely chick who's clearly an alien?? I'd prefer my babies with human genes thank you! If I married that alien my kids for sure would get alien genes oh no! Okay so just kidding, but I hope you get the idea!

Anyways asides from that, I do wonder, Sadness, how you're dealing with your situation? If you really don't want another little boy you could always put your baby up for adoption, there are just tons of people who would do anything to have a little boy, and have tons of love to give him. And then you could look into the possibility of adopting a little girl, if you've got a husband or steady partner I'm sure it could be done! At least that seems a lot easier than trying to manifest a change in your natural bone structure without resorting to surgery!