Chinese Energetic Medicine by Grace

[gtrlvr83]

BAck on PATHS, was a bit of a stretch on money but I know it is worth it. I cant wait for all the great thing to come, great to be back guys and gals. I love all of you so much

[heat_georgia]

Grace

Hi Grace... Hi everyone...

Okay.. so I was feeling much better and trying to focus on getting better, when I relapsed once again with "----" the man that I have been obsessed with for over a year now.. So last night I told him that I thought he was a liar, and that I didn't think I could be his friend anymore. I will admit I have tried that a few times now without much luck, because I really do want to be his friend. I just keep getting drained by my habits, yet seem to be unable to correct them on my own. I know, based on law of attraction, that maybe its not best to identify myself as codependent but these are the symptoms:

Characteristics of Co-dependent People Are:

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An exaggerated sense of responsibility for the actions of others
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A tendency to confuse love and pity, with the tendency to “love” people they can pity and rescue
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A tendency to do more than their share, all of the time
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A tendency to become hurt when people don’t recognize their efforts
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An unhealthy dependence on relationships. The co-dependent will do anything to hold on to a relationship; to avoid the feeling of abandonment
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An extreme need for approval and recognition
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A sense of guilt when asserting themselves
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A compelling need to control others
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Lack of trust in self and/or others
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Fear of being abandoned or alone
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Difficulty identifying feelings
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Rigidity/difficulty adjusting to change
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Problems with intimacy/boundaries
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Chronic anger
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Lying/dishonesty
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Poor communications
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Difficulty making decisions

And well... I really feel i need more help with these issues. I feel horrible today because I said I couldn't talk to the man anymore... I accused him of lying... and I still feel so attached.

Anyway... I feel guilty for repeatedly asking for help with these issues, but I haven't been able to move past it and I'm feeling sooo drained.

Thank you..
LOve heather

[Grace]

For All!

Don't Watch this Video unless you want to feel happy! (length 4 min:38sec)

JOY RISING!

[gtrlvr83]

Thank you Grace and everyone else here for all your love and support

[yari]

Thanks so much!

Hey Grace,

I feel better today and last night I slept better. I did the breathing exercise and it helped me a lot. It reduce a lot of the nervous tension I was feeling. Gotta catch my bus...
Bye

[heat_georgia]

Grace

Thank you so much for all of your beautiful posts!

I'm feeling better already.

heather

[heat_georgia]

gtrlvr83

Hello again everyone, sorry it has been so long since I have been around. I have been sinking into a very dark place in my life as of late, and about two weeks ago my father who was also one of my best friends died. Because of the cost of flying home I also had to cancel all of my paths theaters for now so I do not have any help there at the moment. I feel totally broken and have no one around me to help me put myself back together again and right now feel unable to do it on my own so any help from anyone here would be great. thank you in advance for all the energy I know is coming my way, I look forward to soon being strong enough to start giving back again

Sorry to hear about this. Sending you my condolences.

Hope you're feeling a little better.

heather

[Grace]

For gtrlvr83!

Hello again everyone, sorry it has been so long since I have been around. I have been sinking into a very dark place in my life as of late, and about two weeks ago my father who was also one of my best friends died. Because of the cost of flying home I also had to cancel all of my paths theaters for now so I do not have any help there at the moment. I feel totally broken and have no one around me to help me put myself back together again and right now feel unable to do it on my own so any help from anyone here would be great. thank you in advance for all the energy I know is coming my way, I look forward to soon being strong enough to start giving back again

Hi gtrlvr83,

I will make the necessary CEM corrections now. I want you to view this video.

YouTube - 5 Dark Night Of Soul Darkness Spiritual Depression Surrender

It is a wonderful explanation of the Dark night of the Soul. I have posted this before, but I didn't want you to have to search for it. We have all gone through this, and I know you will remember how powerful your Being truly is.

[Grace]

For KimJ, Sunshine, Mozaar and Serena!

Hi Grace,
Thank you so much, as always, for your information and corrections.

Wow, I had no idea. He's my little, wonderfully affectionate comedian...I would never have thought he'd have things like that (dark, painful) going on within him. Of course I realize it's unconscious, but still, he's for the most part so 'light' so it's really surprising. Fortunately, we've never been ones to let our kids watch scary movies, etc. (I'm one of those overprotective mothers, LOL), so I'll definitely keep going with that longer and keep him otherwise shielded, plus work on the positive images more.

I can't see how (no pun intended) to do anything about the doctors/glasses/etc. though as if he doesn't wear them, either of his eyes immediately cross in as the brain shuts one eye down. It's random now, it used to be just one eye that was weaker but we patched his good eye for years (x hours per day) and now the vision has 'caught up' with with the other eye so now either eye will randomly deviate in without the glasses... What do you suggest with regards to the glasses. I understand the idea of glasses creating weakness and dependence, but 'in the meantime', he can't see well and it potentially creates a worsening in his condition...or does it given that it's emotional/spiritual not physical... One thing that confuses me though is that he didn't start out with glasses of course (!), and without them his eyes were getting worse with regards to vision... He was so much happier when he got glasses for the first time. He was only 1 year old but he never, ever tried to take them off. That part confuses me about the 'alternative' treatment being not to use glasses at all, in the meantime, while we work on the images he is receiving in regards to beauty...

As for the 'prosperity' stuff, staffing is on the rebound again thankfully, but customer count is horrible. I am 'deleting' all worry/fear-based thoughts as soon as I catch them, am spending time each day visualizing, focusing on my successful business, etc., but I don't know when/if I should be looking at all the struggle as a sign that this is not the right path for me. This is where I also continually get confused...I know everything is perfect, physical reality is a result of past thinking, so in that sense there is no right 'path', any path is/can be the 'right' path, so then clearly this is just a matter of past wrong thinking....? Also, how does my husband's stress affect this. We're co-owners of the business, both with other jobs. He 'thinks positive' but doesn't really do anything else so there's probably a lot brewing under the surface. Could there be a bit of a tug-o-war of the differing vibrations?

Many, many blessings to you Grace. I can't express my appreciation enough for your help and thoughts.
Kim

Thank you so much Sunshine, Mozaar and Serena! Your posts mean a lot to me.

Sunshine, Serena is correct and know that everything will work itself through, and Patience truly is a virtue. Keep focused and concentrated with feelings of Gratitude on your ideals. Stay in the moment and do not go into the future. If you do, you will send vibrations of fear to the future and create more of what you don't want.

I make corrections for you daily Sunshine, but we are infinite beings, and part of the Collective consciousness, so even though layers of issues are removed, there is always more. The great news is, once you remove a certain amount of issues (different for each person) you will feel the difference, and be much happier even when you are going through challenges. Breaking bad habits of thought will take time and practice, but I know you will do it. You WILL get there.




KimJ,

I agree with wantfreeenergy's analogy, "Glasses will make eye conditions worse. It's like trying to create an immune system using drugs instead of allowing the body to grow strong. Doing such things will only cause the body dependence upon on them."

You still need to follow your doctor's advice for him, just know that it's not the glasses that are helping him heal. He will see better with the glasses of course, but they are not correcting the core issue. Which is "Fear of seeing traumatic events again and again" Teach him as he grows older and more mature to seek out, and look to beauty.

If he does experience any ugliness, guide him back to calming his world with visions of beauty that he can see in his imagination easily.

Pamela Sweda's painting "Honoring a Master" is a perfect example of looking to beautiful things. It also reminds us that "inner-vision" is what makes a Master, and our outerworld beautiful.



Remind your son often to recite this powerful affirmation.

"I am whole, perfect, powerful, strong, loving, harmonious and happy".

I will continue to make the CEM corrections for his eyes. Keep me posted.

[gtrlvr83]

Hello again everyone, sorry it has been so long since I have been around. I have been sinking into a very dark place in my life as of late, and about two weeks ago my father who was also one of my best friends died. Because of the cost of flying home I also had to cancel all of my paths theaters for now so I do not have any help there at the moment. I feel totally broken and have no one around me to help me put myself back together again and right now feel unable to do it on my own so any help from anyone here would be great. thank you in advance for all the energy I know is coming my way, I look forward to soon being strong enough to start giving back again

[Grace]

For Heather!

Cass,
I've dealt with the same issues. I know how it feels. It seems my relationships end up the same... I'm taking a class on addictions right now... and I'm learning a little bit about co-dependents, love addicts, sex addicts, love avoidants ... its interesting how these things play out. I think most women want to have sex, but we tend to associate love with sex. When we are sexually intimate, we bond with our partners, and want something more sacred. In today's culture with all the internet porn, and women being looked at as sex objects... it kinda feels like that's just the way we are thought of. I'm struggling to find more peace of mind with this subject, as I know that my believes have everything to do with what I attract.

Thanks for sharing your posts!
heather

Hi Heather,

You are correct your beliefs are created from accepting information (thoughts and feelings) over and over again without question into your inner world (sub-conscious mind), and so you attract in your outer world the same vibration of your thoughts and feelings about a thing. If you constantly listen to and believe the outer world's thoughts and views you neglect to create what it is you truly desire, and what is sacred for you.

If you look to the outer world to try and find a good relationship you will only experience disappointment. Thoughts about women being sex objects, internet porn, men are pigs etc. have no place in your conscious mind if you want to manifest a loving relationship.

If you want to change what is showing up in your outer world, then change your inner world first. Conjure up your perfect man with qualities and values that you respect, love and admire. Feel the excitement of you two being together enjoying life to the fullest. SMILE with gratitude, because you know that he WILL show up. Do this often, daily.

Once again, patience is key, what you feed your sub-conscious mind will indeed show up. Faith is instrumental in that you feel gratitude and excitement for the fact that you know what to do to manifest your perfect relationship with a man or significant other and it will definitely happen.

You do not need to go to those meetings, and you do not need to label yourself as co-dependent or anything negative. You can simply accept what you have created in the past, forgive it all, and begin to focus and concentrate your mind with feelings of gratitude on your Ideal man.

I am making the necessary CEM corrections for you individually, but for the group too, as issues of "Lack of love" is a collective conscious issue as well.

Thank you for posting Heather!


Replace your old thoughts and feelings with your ideal thoughts and feelings and you will then remove the barrier of "lack of love".

[Grace]

For Cassiopeias!

Your last post was really profound, Grace... It really helps me right now.

I seem to have lost direction in my life right now. I feel listless and aimless - I just slept for over 15 hours and want to go back to sleep because my dreams were more comforting than being awake. I've got a request for corrections to do with my love life, because lately events that I have created seem to be telling me that I have a lot of subconscious feelings that I am not fit for girlfriend material, just 'good time girl' material. Well that was a lot of fun in the past but I have moved beyond it and want something deeper now, yet can't seem to reach it.

Hi Cass,

Guilt is a vibration that wears people out! You know you are definitely girlfriend material, but you are holding onto too much Guilt over the past. Focus your mind and feelings on Gratitude.

Visualize yourself with a water hose in both hands as it shoots out Crystal Clear Brilliant White Light. Now aim this "hose of Light" at the Hugh mound of dirt in front of you. You know that there is something very valuable underneath all that dirt and mud. Keep the hose on the mound until you rinse away all the Guilt/dirt that needs to be washed away until the treasure underneath is revealed. YOU!

Now step back and see yourself anew. Brilliant shining and beautiful. It may take the patience of an archaeologist un-earthing an ancient Greek Marble Statue, but you can do it. See yourself beautiful and clean. Free of Guilt.

I will continue making the necessary CEM corrections. This post alone will help half the people viewing! THANK YOU Cass for posting!

[heat_georgia]

codependent

Hi Grace and everyone...

I've finally come to the realization that I'm a codependent. Its really embarrassing and hard to admit, but I'm worried that if I don't, all of my relationships will suffer. I was thinking of joining a group, but it happens to be that those meetings are on days that I can't make. Not really sure how to go about handling it but, I'm really sad about it...especially in looking back over my past relationships. Can't deal with the obsessive thinking anymore... its all bumming me out.

Any advice or corrections would be great support. Thank you all so much!

Heather

[KimJ]

For Grace

Hi Grace,
Thank you so much, as always, for your information and corrections.

Wow, I had no idea. He's my little, wonderfully affectionate comedian...I would never have thought he'd have things like that (dark, painful) going on within him. Of course I realize it's unconscious, but still, he's for the most part so 'light' so it's really surprising. Fortunately, we've never been ones to let our kids watch scary movies, etc. (I'm one of those overprotective mothers, LOL), so I'll definitely keep going with that longer and keep him otherwise shielded, plus work on the positive images more.

I can't see how (no pun intended) to do anything about the doctors/glasses/etc. though as if he doesn't wear them, either of his eyes immediately cross in as the brain shuts one eye down. It's random now, it used to be just one eye that was weaker but we patched his good eye for years (x hours per day) and now the vision has 'caught up' with with the other eye so now either eye will randomly deviate in without the glasses... What do you suggest with regards to the glasses. I understand the idea of glasses creating weakness and dependence, but 'in the meantime', he can't see well and it potentially creates a worsening in his condition...or does it given that it's emotional/spiritual not physical... One thing that confuses me though is that he didn't start out with glasses of course (!), and without them his eyes were getting worse with regards to vision... He was so much happier when he got glasses for the first time. He was only 1 year old but he never, ever tried to take them off. That part confuses me about the 'alternative' treatment being not to use glasses at all, in the meantime, while we work on the images he is receiving in regards to beauty...

As for the 'prosperity' stuff, staffing is on the rebound again thankfully, but customer count is horrible. I am 'deleting' all worry/fear-based thoughts as soon as I catch them, am spending time each day visualizing, focusing on my successful business, etc., but I don't know when/if I should be looking at all the struggle as a sign that this is not the right path for me. This is where I also continually get confused...I know everything is perfect, physical reality is a result of past thinking, so in that sense there is no right 'path', any path is/can be the 'right' path, so then clearly this is just a matter of past wrong thinking....? Also, how does my husband's stress affect this. We're co-owners of the business, both with other jobs. He 'thinks positive' but doesn't really do anything else so there's probably a lot brewing under the surface. Could there be a bit of a tug-o-war of the differing vibrations?

Many, many blessings to you Grace. I can't express my appreciation enough for your help and thoughts.
Kim

[serenac]

I have managed to have some feelings of calm and feeling positive and good which has been lovely. And I really have been making an effort. And when I get a glimpse of these feelings then I make the most of them and really focus. I know that I do have plenty to be grateful for and I am grateful and trying my best to think of these things and shutting out all the not nice things that are happening. I'm still finding it challenging that despite my best efforts I still am not seeing the results I want. Just to give you a very little example. Like you had a problem with the room but then managed to attract what you wanted, I need a washer and a fridge and had finally found a washer and agreed a sale and then spent the afternoon ringing round to find someone to collect it for me only to be told that she'd given it to her mother! So back to square one. Then I bid for several on ebay and lost every single one. And getting all excited about jobs and picturing getting one and really feeling positive only to then get yet another rejection. I think this is what I'm finding hardest. That I put all the necessary effort in and don't just sit back and expect things to be handed to me on a plate and I have good and happy feelings etc etc and think yes, this is definitely going to happen, but then invariably it doesn't work out and after about the millioneth time (well, ok, maybe just a slight exaggeration!) I find it increasingly hard to keep feeling good and positive. And I have to say that I find it very difficult to accept and love it when I get all these disappointments. I can say it, but I know I don't mean it. There just has been a whole hosts of rejections for various things lately from the small to the large and for the life of me I don't know why it keeps happening and therefore how to turn it round. I keep picking myself up and reapplying everything I know but . I so want to crack this and be able to turn it around and understand it. So thank you for the corrections and not giving up! And I will be thinking of you at the competition and wishing you well and lots of enjoyment.

Hi Sunshine! Great to hear about you!

Oh I can understand what you are talking about. I used to get soooooooooo disappointed when things didn't work out no matter how much I tried and how hard I tried. Lately that has not been happening to me (keeping fingers crossed hehe! ) but before that used to happen to me aaaaaaaaaaaaall the time!

I really don't know what the explanation for this could be. But maybe I can think of a few ideas? Well let's take what happened to me this summer. I wasn't using Paths yet at that time, I didn't know about Paths then, so it can't be attributed to any positive changes from Paths. HOWEVER, this summer I just finished taking a course along with 59 other people and we all dashed out to tackle the job market, 60 new people to engross the unemployment lists! Well month after month passed by and no jobs showed up, not in my life and not in the lives of the other 57 people either (2 found jobs because they were dancers but the rest of us were not dancers). At first we all sent out CVs very eagerly, fantasizing about the dream jobs we were all certain lay in our near future. But as the weeks passed by and we didn't even get called to not even one tiny little interview, people started getting bitter and disappointed. Everyone started affirming, there are NO jobs out there, with this crisis jobs just DON'T EXIST! They started saying this more and more firmly and insistently every day. Every time I called one of my ex classmates they greeted me with, hi you didn't find a job did ya jobs just don't exist right now!

But in spite of that for some strange reason (remember I wasn't on Paths at that time and I didn't know anything about positive beliefs or the LOA or any of that stuff at that time) I just COULDN'T get it out of my head that there HAD TO be a job for me out there, there just had to be! And I figured, if everyone else had already given up and was no longer sending out CVs, and just one job showed up (imagine just one job in the whole city! well that's the way it was folks!) I would get that job because I was the only one who would have sent a CV to that place! And effectively, THAT IS EXACTLY what happened! I gobbled up the only job that became available. Because I didn't give up, because I just somehow KNEW that job was out there, because I kept going and kept persisting and kept insisting on sending out CVs even though MONTHS went by where we didn't hear a single reply.

(I've since given up that job for a variety of reasons, but I won't get into that here.)

Another reason maybe why things aren't working out at the moment for you, might be just simply what Klaus Joehle talks about all the time, that there is a time lapse between when you change your way of thinking, beliefs and attitudes, and when your reality will start to reflect the changes inside of you. Klaus found through his own experiences that when he made a positive change inside himself, it generally took a minimum of 30 days, oftentimes more than that, for his outer reality to change and adjust to his new inner reality. And what to do in the meantime? Well just be patient and know that it WILL happen in time. It's like a seed, when you plant a seed you won't see it sprout for a long time, maybe weeks? That doesn't mean it isn't happening, you just can't see it yet, because it's hidden, it's still underground.

And finally, maybe things aren't jumping in your life yet because maybe you still need to raise your vibrations more to attract nicer things into your life? I wouldn't know, I'm really not with you so I don't really know much about you or your life, but I suppose it could be a possible explanation. Grace shares some GRRRRRRRRREAT ideas on how to raise your vibes, through gratitude and things like that, they really work! Also here is another site that has some info on how to raise your vibes to attract nicer things into your life: How To Raise Your Vibration

If you are feeling very down, bitterly disappointed, pessimistic, etc. your vibes won't be very high. By the way as Cass said, are you using Paths? They help you to gently change your beliefs and attitudes which also raises your vibes.

Well hope all this helps you!

G'luck!