Grace, how did your tournament go this weekend? I have been thinking about you.

I move in to my new home the end of this week. I have a number of jobs in the works and more and more resumes out. I am really wanting to get to work sooner than later, so Grace if you can clear any blockages in that area. I am working on gratitude for everything that is working its way out! things are going great!

Nancy that would be great to have you here! Sacramento is great especially if you like dry hot weather and mild winters! The mild winters area great and I think you would enjoy them after being in Chicago!!!!

I am very happy to be here, and I am also reconnecting with an old friend from elementary school! Awesome!

Blessings to all of you,
Sallyjane

Hey everyone... tomorrow I have a Job interview at 11 am. I am very excited as it is for the job I have been wanting to interview for. Please send LOVE my way tomorrow for me and into the interview.

Last night I did a bunch of clearing and it was very powerful and today I finally got the call I had been waiting to get. Now I need to do the same thing on some of my bills, so I can get them cleared too.

I am also reading a powerful book on magnetizing money or anything you want into your life. It is called "Creating Money" by Sanaya and Duane... Don't remember the two last names, but that should give you enough info to search it.

Tonight Izzi went to a youth group and made a bunch of friends. I was waiting outside to pick her up and I made a few new friends too! Funny how that worked out! We got invited to a swim party too. It is her Dad's church so I will not be going there... I prefer more metaphysical churches. But it was fun to make some friends and spend some time talking to people besides my X.

Love light and blessings
Sallyjane

Hi Sallyjane

Am sending love your way and lots of good thoughts for your job interview tomorrow that all will work out perfectly for you.

The book that you mentioned - the names are Sanaya Roman and Duane Packer.

I'm really pleased that you're settling into California and making new friends already. Looking forward to hearing all about your new home.

I am sending nothing but positive vibrations your way Sallyjane ♥

I happen to have that book on my desk right now. I read it the first time about a year and a half ago. They channel two entities by the name of Orin and DaBen.

They have also written a very popular book, Opening to Channel. This book takes one step by step through the process to being able to channel your own, individual spiritual guide. Sanaya and Duane have been channeling Orin and DaBen for around 20 years I believe.

Thanks Sallyjane!!!!
Its so great to hear that you're right where you belong!!!

I will be in San Diego (briefly) and then Tijuana NEXT WEEK!! To finally get the rest of my mercury fillings out (wish me luck!). Its a dentist affiliated with Hulda Clark's cancer clinic she had there. Just yesterday I read flipping through a travel magazine that 'medical vacations' are getting big...dif countries for dif things...like India for heart surgury(!) and Mexico was recommended for dental!

Sending warm and loving thoughts your way!!!
xoxo
Nancy

The interview went good! I won't know for 7 to 10 days from the interview. Every time I would answer a question he would say "oh good or some positive answer. I have another job interview today... I know that I will get the highest and best job for me right now!

Nancy,
I will be sending love into your mercury removal. 5 or 6 years ago we were vacationing in Cabo San Lucas in Mexico and one of our friends got a really bad tooth ache and needed a root canal. She got it done down there thinking she would have her dentist in America fix it when she got back home. When she got back home her dentist told her that an excellent job was done, and it did not need fixing. The procedure cost her all of $60 US dollars.

Blessings Sallyjane

Grace, could I bother you for another correction regarding my agressiveness I've been experiencing lately? A cut-and-paste from another thread I wrote in:

I'm a little worried for my safety now, knowing that I attracted a situation like that!

cassiopeias_dream,

I will also work on your aggressiveness. It sounds like with your new found self confidence you have not learned how to express it in a way that will not get you into trouble. Learning CALM Assertiveness is the way to go. One thing I find helpful is "Feel, Felt, and Found" kind of thing. So when someone says something that is offensive to you, you might say when you said that, I felt this way. I would prefer you not talk to me with that tone, or say those kind of words to me, whatever the situation. That way you take the blame out of it while at the same time letting the person know how you felt. You also want to follow it with how you want to be treated in a kind way of course.

Assertiveness is good! but at the same time we want to remain calm and in control, commanding the situation. For instance when someone starts to twist your words around, what I do is I simply tell them, not getting upset that we are talking about this subject and I would appreciate it if they would stick to the subject at hand. If they continue then I explain that the discussion is over and I walk away. If someone is complaining about me, and trying to blame things on me? I simply point out that it is bothering them and not me, so it must be there problem not mine. I am only their mirror here to help them. I smile and exit the conversation. I spent way to many years accepting the blame or taking ownership of things that I did not own, and were not my problems. Now I just give them back. One lesson here is to learn to exit at the right time.

One lesson I am learning right now, is that things that bother me are my problems and I need to deal with them myself and not try to give them away either. Okay, I have known this for sometime, but it is starting to sink in to my thick skull!

Set the intention to be calm assertive to start off with. You never win by being aggressive or angry. You just empower the other person.

I am sending you some Love to help. Also I would recommend the Living on Love series by Joel Klaus. The link is posted a number of times on this thread and there is a thread under personal development called "living on love". Learning to fill your heart with love and send Love to your enemies (well the people we perceive as our enemies, but in actuality they are our mirrors placed here to let us grow and change.) Yea that one hits home, when you are dealing with people that really bug you. The more they bug you the more they are mirroring you back to yourself. OUCH! That one hurts. Love conquers all, so focus on Love and gratitude and healing will start to kick in.

Blessings Sallyjane

Okay on Friday I went to another Job interview. I went in there thinking I did not want the job... Left thinking this would be a fun job! They called me back Friday around five and asked me back for another interview on Monday. It is one where I go and see the job in action and I guess work it a bit.

I am excited. I am in my house now! I have an air bed for a bed, and lawn chairs for furniture, but soon I will go back to Washington to get my stuff and have my house back.

Blessings, Love and Light,

Sallyjane

I really like your post about sending love to people that bug you. I'm been trying to work on some one I know for quite sometime now and I realize also that this person is somewhat like me, when I feel closed in and there's no way out my problems. I was feeling discourage for my efforts in helping her was only hurting me more but Love will find its way through this. The problem was more not feeling myself up with love b4 I can give to others. Anyways I really like that post and redirect myself to what matters most.. LOVE

Lots of Gratitude, Yari

Thank you, zartgirl. I completely agree with everything you're saying, especially this:

I am struggling with this at the moment, and I have the perfect job in which to learn this! I am a waitress in the financial district, so the clientele has tended to be stressed, cold and often snobbish bankers who either treat you like you're a robot who exists only to serve them, or a piece of meat with nothing but a pretty exterior. Lately I have realised how much dislike I carry for them, but also that this is my issue and not theirs. Also, my dislike for them obviously attracts a different experience than it would if I felt nothing but compassion for them. Finally, it's also a self-esteem thing - I am insecure about getting a lack of respect, and so that's exactly what I get! I've actually started realising lately how large a part of my day goes to thinking hostile and negative thoughts about the people that surround me (customers only, as I have no problem with my workmates), and it's shocking!

Then again, it's one thing to "know" something, and a completely different one to live it. Once i'm in the zone of negativity, I struggle to get out. But often, while working a particularly difficult shift, I think to myself "if I can get further down the path to enlightenment in this job, I can do it almost anywhere!!" Also, I think I will try doing affirmations. It's difficult to send love when you're feeling nothing but hostility, but at least mental affirmations are just words that you can tell yourself, and even if you don't believe them at all, I have found them to have some effect over time.

I have found some easy ways to maintain peaceful feelings.... I start my day with...
Switchwords...Divine Mask Guard....for protection........

When I get into situations that are uncomfortable, I say ( from my belief system)... Thank you Lord that I am in these circumstances and I bless these people (or person) with love, joy, pease, wisdom...all good things. It keeps me focused on positive things and not on someone's negative behavior. For your circumstances it would have to be quick or in between customers. Everything we experience can be turned around when we focus on blessing the circumstances and people involved.

Hi Sallyjane

I'm so pleased about your job interviews and wish you lots of luck for tomorrow and hope that you get whichever job feels right to you. I'm glad too that you're in your new house and starting to make friends and I hope that your house soon feels like home.

Nancy, I send you lots of good wishes for your dentist trip and hope that it goes really well.

Cassiopeias Dream, I'm really impressed by your understanding of what's going on for you and the way you seem to be in it experiencing it and also sort of able to look at it from the outside. I know what you mean about it being one thing to know something and another to live it and also about being difficult to send love when you feel hostility. One thing I've done when I've not been able to feel love is to just say to myself that I want and intend to send love.

Grace

Please could I ask for some corrections and love to come my way? I'm just feeling rather sad and discouraged right now. I've had quite a few obstacles to deal with which I have been just getting on with but I've also been given false information from people I've turned to for help/advice who I should have been able to trust and I've found this disheartening. I'm also in quite a bit of physical pain too which I know is likely due to everything that is going on. I am keeping on with the love, forgiveness and gratitude.

Thanks

"Smile for it costs nothing, but creates much. It enriches those who receive, without impoverishing those who give. It happens in a flash and the memory of it sometimes lasts forever." Dale Carnegie

A Tribute to Michael Jackson,the man who made me dance!

Smile, though your heart is aching
Smile, even though it's breaking
When there are clouds in the sky
You'll get by...

If you smile with your fear and sorrow
Smile and maybe tomorrow
You'll find that life is still worthwhile if you'll just...
Light up your face with gladness
Hide every trace of sadness
Although a tear may be ever so near
That's the time you must keep on trying
Smile, what's the use of crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you'll just...
Smile, though your heart is aching
Smile, even though it's breaking
When there are clouds in the sky
You'll get by...

If you smile
Through your fear and sorrow
Smile and maybe tomorrow
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you'll just Smile...

That's the time you must keep on trying
Smile, what's the use of crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you'll just Smile


ps Get ready, Grace is back to posting and she is smiling!!

I'm sure am smiling now!! Thank you for posting the song In rememberence of
Micheal.. He will live in our hearts forever and ever!!!

Love you More! Yari

Hi Grace
Not sure what's going on but I'm still blocked left, right and centre. couldn't even post here until I used a different browser . I'm using everything I can to work on it but I'm feeling ground down, weary and sick to my soul so any help would be much appreciated. Thanks.

Just one more quick update on my kids this time. It has been hard to move down here the beginning of summer and not having friends down here yet!

So last night my kids were watching TV at their Dad's house next door (he was gone out of town) I was here sleeping and healing, and practicing Gratitude with 10-15 flys all over my bed (it is a new art form when you can obtain Gratitude with 15 flys all over you... You have reached a new level of consciousness). Awe! and NO Flyswatters allowed! Izzi came over for something with Nat in tow and a kid yelled down the street what's your name? She answered Izzi and continued into the house. Got what ever she wanted from my kitchen that Dad's house did not have and exited the door... To her surprise was all the neighborhood kids lined up encircling our porch, and the questions all came shooting out, and after a half hour of that she was invited to go hang out and listen to music with them three doors down. I am not sure she has recovered from the shock of having a whole gaggle of kids of which a handful where her age delivered to her door via the Universe! That kid is one powerful manifester!

Anyways just thought you would enjoy that little tidbit, as we all know how hard moving to a new place and meeting new friends can be!

Blessings, Love, Light, and Joy Sallyjane

[font="Georgia"]Hi Everyone!

Its been a really long time. Just feeling like I want to be a part of this healing community.....not really sure why i havent been on here in soooo long , but I miss it.

Many things in my life have changed since I started paths over one year ago, but I would say when things really changed was when I asked Grace for help back in late July... I think it was. She helped me choose the correct modules, and things completely shifted !!! For the better mostly... but as we all know shifts in consciousness, and learning lessons can be a bit painful sometimes too. Sometimes our believes our sooo stubborn! DAMN!

As I still have a very strong desire to be with the man that I wrote about on my posts in the past. I also still feel confused about the direction of my life. I just turned 32 in July and some part of me feels like its necessary for me to know with clarity right now what it is I want for my life. Another part of me still dwells on worries about the economy, and government conspiracies like mandatory vaccinations and microchips etc. Sometimes I feel hopeless. Like there is nothing to look forward to. As i got extreme tunnel vision when it came to being with a man that didnt see a future with me. We are friends still, and many people say I must limit my conversations with him to once a week, but its very difficult for me. Being a cancer in the zodiac.... I can be extremely clingy.

Anyway... I now have a platinum theater as well as my 4 mod. theater.
So....I can be a little more specific with my instructions. I'm excited to see how things change.

So.... I hope everyone is well. Its good to be back.

LOVE!!! -heather

Hi Grace and everybody. Just checking in....definitely working on this:

"The point of Power is NOW. Do Not wait, read any book that is constructive, take any and all actions that are constructive, THINK GOOD THOUGHTS as often as humanly possible. THIS IS THE HARDEST WORK YOU WILL EVER DO!! Thinking is the hardest work you will ever do. To not think is to not be conscious of your power. To allow the outer world to think for you is DEATH."

I need corrections. Won't go into details. Have been doing quite a bit of work on myself the last few months. Am almost there. Almost there....My hope is for everyone here to be on their right path.

ha, that's funny--my reply came in at 1:11pm.

I forgot to mention that I lost 45 lbs since I asked Grace for help with my modules. The original issue that led me to sign up for paths for in the first place.
I was using all of the ones for weight loss, but after asking Grace to help me with which mods would be best for me.... I started losing weight without really trying... I think it was a combination of being on the weightloss mods for awhile and then shifting my focus to other things.

THANKS GRACE!!!! : )

Back!!! Yes it is amazing just how much we shift in areas other than those we are working on with our Paths. I too have lost at least 60 lbs.! Yeah!!!! Probably more but I do not have a scale to check with... so it will be a pleasant surprise! Glad to see you back!!!

Thanks sally jane! glad you made it out to cali too!!!

Heather needs corrections.... I am very sad now... I am still feeling a loss about the man that i started seeing right after i came on to energetic forum. its been almost a year that we had stayed "friends" talking everyday, and sometimes being intimate....but now we are at a point where we have decided we have to take a break from talking. basically i have shut out almost everyone in my life and feel horrible and lonely. i'm 32... my biological clock is ticking, i don't know what i'm doing with my life... i worry about the economy, microchips, mandatory vaccines, and all sorts of stuff. i feel like giving up. i want to just pick up and change my life but you take yourself with you.

sorry to be a downer...but this is where i am, and need help. so love energy and corrections would be great... but i'm feeling guilty, ungrateful, selfish.

I am sending you LOVE right now! A warm blanket of LOVE for you to just wrap up your soul with. Remember the more you resist the more it persists.

It is important that you focus on Gratitude in every area of your life. When you worry about things then you create those things in your life. Have you heard the phrase "Let go, and Let God"? I bring this up, because I hear a NEED and an AGENDA in both of your posts. I know from experience that I have to have no NEED or AGENDA to manifest the things I want. The Universe is vast and totally infinite with no limitations, and that means that when we have an agenda we are setting limits on the Universe of how the Universe can deliver or the form in which the Universe must bring us what we want. A lot of time our AGENDAS are not our highest and best. This is tough I know, because I have had to learn this and then relearn it and then again! Every-time I learn that the Universe's Plan is so much better than my AGENDAS! Each time I find that if I just release things and send LOVE into them the Universe just takes care of me!

Okay, as far as the political issues you are worried about... Let them go! First of all I use to be married to a Politician, and this is what I know... It takes forever for the government to do anything! It is slower than a snail. A sloth could win a race against the government. The second thing is that the easier to send love into the situation and change will come faster! I have found that when I look at a situation as just horrible, then it becomes horrible and overwhelming, but when I am grateful and look at it as just a learning experience for me then I learn what I need to learn and I move through it and beyond it, and suddenly things are much better. This applies to both your person life also...

Blessings, Love and Light Sallyjane

Sending you LOVE and doing some clearing on you too.

Blessings, Love and Light Sallyjane

thank you so much! you know i am aware of these things that you are telling me but for some reason i have been so down in the dumps lately, that i havent been able to see how easy i have it, and all the blessings in my life. i do feel needy, and with an agenda.... i've had it for awhile now i guess.... its so silly, and girly, and disney.... to have a man that once seemed to love me... fall in love with me again. and i know its not right... its tearing me up, because its resisting what is... not accepting reality, living in an illusion, not loving my self, and basing my self worth on whether or not one man loves me. i know how ridiculous it is... i know... i keep trying to tell myself that there is something better out there for me, and loving myself should be top priority. but sometimes i am just flooded with feelings, and seem to have no control over them... then i feel ashamed and weak... and i fear that i will be alone and crying my whole life. so i'm trying to be more grateful and forgiving, but i just havent mastered it. i will keep working on it.

anyway... i still have allot of growing and healing. i know things will get better in time.

much love!!!!!!!! thanks a bunch!!!

heather

I could use more help. I havent been able to sleep the last few nights, and have been feeling really angry. I guess the anger is something i need to feel and move through, but i wait tables which can be a little stressful as it is. I'm afraid i might snap. Just trying to chill, and take the pain of hurt and rejection a little easier.

Heather

When you are feeling angry try taking a moment to first let your self feel those feelings, then remind yourself of who you are... "You are the Power of God" then remind yourself that you created this on a spiritual level to learn. Now remind yourself that this is not real, it is an illusion... remember this is important! then move into gratitude. If you could create all of this in your life, then you can create good things too. This will eventually only take a few moments to move through.

This is processing and will help you move through some of this and keep moving back into gratitude.

Blessings Sallyjane