As I mentioned before i am in the middle of a big move! It is a total step of faith for me! It is involving a divorce and the likes. I am also seeking permission to take my kids back to Calif. where I am from and where I will have more opportunity...

The challenge is there are some very well meaning people helping me to accomplish all of this, and they are definitely divine appt. in my life! They also do not understand the law of Attraction! They keep preparing me for all the evil my stbx could throw at me, but I need to attract peacefulness and willingness to my divorce. I need to stay focussed on a peaceful spirit. So far my stbx is saying he wants to keep things peaceful, and he knows I want to take my kids back to Calif.

So the question is how do I keep the intention of peacefulness and workinig together throughout the process! I don't want lawyers and a big fight and there is no reason to have a fight! How do I keep all the negative thoughts coming from my advocates at the shelter out of my head? I know this is normal, because most of the world does not believe in the LOA and so this is something everyone must contend with all the time, right?

Thank you for your suggestions! I will be moving to the shelter on Monday afternoon!

Doing The Right Thing,

That's not always easy (although fleeing from the fire is natural).

If you can get some time, get quiet and still and see/feel the "scene" you want for you and your kids. I mean the one you want to end up in.

If you can, do that 10-15 minutes each day.

The rest of the time work on forgiveness : Forgive the people at the shelter for their limitations. Forgive yourself and everyone as much as you can. You are making history!!

(I know what I am saying is not that profound but we are all in different situations and someone removed may be able to see it more from the outside. Hope that helps.)

I also hope this doesn't want to make you tear your hair out but I see their concern. For example (and maybe they're already saying this) he could act like it's all peacefull or whatever but if you try to leave the state he could probably prevent it until the court settles everything. Dope am I doing it too? It's just 'cause I've seen that actually happen before and I think these people you mention have seen that type of thing too.

Ok back to the forgiveness . . .yes forgiveness, forgiveness and to YOUR NEW LIFE!!

-Jessica

Hi Zartgirl,
First of all I want you to know that you are among a wonderful group of people here who will continually lift you up in their thoughts, prayers and intentions as you move into the next phase of your life.
I am certainly no expert here, but I would suggest you focus on what makes you feel good - it may be spending your free moments with your art - sketching, spending time in nature, or hugging and being grateful for you children and the decision you have made to care for yourself and them.
Regardless of what is happening with your stbx and your relationship and inspite of conversation at the shelter - know that we are keeping you lifted up.
Focus on your end result and know that it is all good and you will get there in perfect timing. Also remember you get what you focus on whether you want it or not - so your only work here is to focus on what makes you feel good - even if it is a bird song outside the window.
Listen to uplifting music, come visit the forums and keep posting.
Love and Light,
Maggie

Thank you! I will stay focussed on what makes me feel good. Feelings of peace and serentity and love. I will focus on my life with my kids being peaceful and serene and loving. What a better way to live life than always being in fear!

Thank you Thank you Thank you!!!
zartgirl

SJ,

I just wanted to let you know I am thinking about you today.

Just by the power of you. . .

That's what is changing history!!

That's some pretty strong stuff

Sending love your way,

Jessica