Stephen, thank you for your explaination. It is very helpful. I have read the book, but had trouble with the 2-point. It felt like there was nothing happening, which I know can be the case....but to me it just didn't feel like there was a connection. I am going to re-read the book and try it again keeping your explaination in mind.

Jure, it sounded funny that you made her laugh! That is Great! You must be doing something right.
Nadine