Hello everyone,
From 1am to 4:30am last night, Zain moaned rather than cried each time he woke up

We are moving in the right direction.
Sandra's also found something on the internet about other mum's having identical problems. The other mums were using behaviour therapy and it took them between 10 days to 3 months to sort out. Sandra's going to try and start that tomorrow. So with the help of everyone here, we hope it is going to be sorted out in days rather than months!
Kai has recovered from his fever
With love and gratitude
Alan