Hi Debbie, those are some great observations! I agree with you that all these old feelings come back to us because they need to be healed. (I believe that anytime we experience an uncomfortable emotion or one that doesn't feel good, that it is a signal to us that we need some healing).What a great way to look at visits from Mom! It's a wonderful opportunity to heal. And maybe in the process we can get to experience our moms as the wonderful people they actually are!!

But the main reason why I'm butting my head into this conversation is because I have found that the Breakthrough to Enlightenment module is a great one for this very situation. I was on it several months ago and found that it helped me to recognize when I was running an old pattern or program that was not healthy for me. It litterally helped me to stop myself in my tracks as I was about to say or do something that was, in my opinion a stupid thing to say or do. And I even was able to figure out why or what triggered me to want to do so. And I have started back on that module and am getting similar results. So I wanted to point that out as something that might help if anyone is consciously trying to work on breaking old patterns. I've also started on the Ho'oponopono mod because I think it helps with that also, as I think it focuses on forgiving and letting go, which is another method to the same end in my opinion.

Stacey