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Grace · #**934** (**permalink**) 11-12-2007, 02:32 AM

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Originally Posted by zartgirl

Well I just got back from mediation appointment for custody of my kids! It was very interesting and WOW! I was at total peace when I got there...

So what happened? The first thing she wanted to know was what each person thought was optimal. I kept my mouth shut, so unlike me!!!!! Keith spoke up first... So unlike him!

He said right off the bat that optimal for him would to be for him to have the kids maybe 2 or 3 times a week!

Whooooaaaa! I knew this was going to be peaceful, but it took me by surprise that he had no intention of even pretending he wanted something more! He then went on to say that his schedule was just too much for him to have the kids much more often!

Well we will have another meeting towards the end of this month or the begining of December... Mostly, the mediator thought it would be good for me to get my job and then we could set up actual times the kids are here and when the kids are there!

The point was it was fabulous how it all went as had been predicted way back before I was able to see it as being peaceful and no fight!!!! It went exactly how it was supposed to go!

Blessings to all of you! And a big

too, especially for Grace who has spent so much time working with me to get me to this point of peace with even my X!!!

Love and Gratitude zartgirl Sallyjane

YOU ARE AWESOME ZARTGIRL! I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH!!