Grace,
thank you for the insight. I read a thread here about Indigo and Crystal children and thought he might be an Indigo child. We always want our children to be 'special' so I thought it was wishful thinking.
I have also believed that he takes on his little buddie's problems and sicknesses at school. That is hard to explain to your doctor.
I have the same problem but I have gotten to the point where I have closed myself off (probably too much) so it doesn't get to me as much.
Chase and I ALWAYS 'catch' things from each other. My husband doesn't share in this, which is good so he can take care of us.
Little story:
I remember one time I got food poisoning or some flu and was vomiting every couple hours all night long. He usually sleeps with us.... So everytime I would throw up in the trash can on the side of the bed, he would wake up, sit up and wait for me to finish and then he would give me a hug. 
He couldn't have been over 12 months at the time. I thought it was cute.
Chase is getting better. I noticed his symptoms this morning were alot better. Still has the runny nose, but the chest congestion and coughing wasn't as bad.
I would like to spend some one on one time with you to help me and my husband understand how to help Chase better as well as ourselves. I attached on of my favorite pictures of Chase along with our x-mas picture
Marnyka