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Old 12-03-2010, 12:24 AM
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Sounds as if you are projecting your insecurities onto others & it then reflects back at you through the lens of your perception.

Most people are wrapped up in their own affairs and may focus on the flaws of others to promulgate separation (that's a WHOLE other conversation), and so perceiving flaws in others is par for the course. Meaning, if they find fault with you they are finding faults with others as well and who among us lacks personal foibles?

I'd say the best thing you can do for yourself is to not focus on what you think people may or may not be thinking. Rather, focus on your well-being and your own affairs. The rest of it will take care of itself.

My $.02
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